"It takes a certain type of [wom]an to teach" -Drake

     To the absolute astonishment of about every person I know I am going to college with the hopes of becoming a teacher. My major is English and my minor is in Secondary Education, yes I really do want to be a high school teacher.  I guess people were surprised with my choice because of my previous plans to move to Alaska and become a bear biologist as well as my intense distaste for children. However...because I coach a swim team 5 days a week I've steadily grown to love children.

     I don't think there is any better feeling than knowing you have taught a child something worthwhile.  Coaching in my opinion is synonymous with teaching.   I've had to learn how to balance making them better athletes, maintaining control through the use of disciplinary action while still making sure the children are always having fun.  My coaching job is not  an easy one and oftentimes  I refer to it as "a real grown person job" "I'm really too young to be feelin this old" -Drake

 Sometimes I wonder if anything will change once I become a teacher.... I guess I'll just have a new batch of kids in that I'll have to teach.

"Swimming in the [pool] come and find me"-Drake

     Well back to the question, What am I?”  Well for some odd reason even though I no longer a swimmer, it’s the first thing I say. 

  I swam competitively for 10 years, during which time my entire life literally revolved around the sport.  I spent 6 days a week, 3 hours a day in the pool and once or twice a month I was away for the weekends at swim meets.  Balancing being a kid and my rigorous training schedule was not easy but I did it because I enjoyed it first and foremost and also because I was striving to reach a goal.  My goal was to receive a swimming scholarship and compete at Division I school.   Unfortunately I was unsuccessful in my goal because of an injury I sustained my junior year of High School.  I severely hurt my leg doing Track which made it impossible for me to compete at the level I needed to.  Although I didn’t reach my goal of swimming in college I still do not regret a single day that I spent swimming. I met my best friend through swimming and formed other lasting friendships.  I learned time management and discipline from swimming, something I feel cannot be easily taught. Today, though I no longer compete, I am still actively involved in the sport in the form of coaching as well as giving swim lessons.  The swimming world is one that I cannot seem to escape from but then again I wouldn’t want to either.  The years I spent swimming is something I will always be proud of and in describing myself I still always refer to myself as a swimmer.  Once a swimmer, always a swimmer is what I like to say.

A balancing act

   

  The word balancing got me thinking.  People always say that things are best in moderation, meaning we must learn to balance things within our lives. Then I also remembered that my astrological sign as well as Drake's happens to be Libra. The sign of the Libra is coincidentally illustrated through the use of the scale.

I find it funny that Libras are described as having a secret desire to live an easy uncomplicated life because for me nothing could be more true.  I always say I am a person who strives to make everything in life convenient. I work tirelessly to balance things in my life so that everything runs as close to perfect as possible.  For example recently I spent hours upon hours on my schedule for the spring semester so that my classes would all be in same general vicinity and back to back, I wanted my semester to be easy and uncomplicated.  Many call me lazy but I like to look at it like this: why exhaust more effort than need be?

I'm not one to follow my zodiac sign but I did find it eerie that my horoscope for today was dead on. People always say that horoscopes are written in such a manner that no matter what any sign could fit any person's life at any given time. The assumption is that they say general and ubiquitous things like; today you will encounter a problem....hahahaha  However I read the horoscopes for the other 11 signs and none of them came close to fitting me as perfectly as my own sign did. The Libra's horoscope for today reads:

"Even if you don’t have secrets, when you keep your thoughts to yourself it can seem like you are hiding something. Further discussions about your future are due to take place. Tighten the purse strings, it’s time to consolidate. "

Just today my family not so jokingly accused me of having a secret life  because I don't talk to them as much as I used to. I guess in the future I do need to "consolidate" with my family more.

      The two things I must balance on a daily basis are school and my own happiness while Drake must balance fame and normalcy. "Fame is like a drug I've taken too much of" -Drake

And just like real drugs it is so easy to get hooked on an impossible to quit, which is why Drake fears fame so much. Its a recurring theme/fear in his songs is that he will get caught up in the superficial life and lose sight of humble roots. He fears mostly that he will never find a mate that will love him for who he is rather than just Drake, the record breaking rapper, we hear blasting on the radio.

"Bein part of this life I feel like I'm bound to end up with somebody that's been with everybody" -Drake

"I fall in love with girls caught up in superficial glamour" -Drake

When I say I must balance school and being happy I basically mean that school for the most part is the sole source of any unhappiness.  I want to do well and  get good grades but at the same time I still want to have a social life and not spend eternity studying and writing papers.

"I just wanna be successful" - Drake and Trey Songz

Drake wanted to be a hip hop star and in his song Successful he defines success as having cars, clothes, money and hoes.  I too aspire to be successful except I define success as simply attaining happiness.  Happiness and success are inextricably linked and it is impossible to talk about one without mentioning the other.  In today’s society everyone wants a good job that will allow them to live in a nice house and drive a nice car. Why? Because for most people it is these material possessions that they believe will make them happy.  To an extent I’m also part of this materialistic society, however I do recognize the fact that money alone cannot buy happiness. Though it can’t buy happiness it DEFINITELY helps.  Think about it: are homeless people or families on welfare ever depicted as being especially happy? The answer is obviously no.  The source of their unhappiness probably stems from their inability to live comfortably.  However it is important to note that the standards involved in living comfortably have significantly changed over the years.  Once upon a time a person was thought to be living comfortably if he or she just had their basic needs met.  But then as time progressed there become new tools to separate the haves from the have nots.  Advertisers began to make it their mission to make you believe you needed a certain something in order to feel happy and fulfilled.  In turn those who couldn’t afford the newest ipod or flat screen TV then felt as if something was missing from their lives.   The truth of the matter is more often than not nothing is missing in these people lives.  People are just made to think something is lacking and then despairingly strive to attain material objects because they think it’s the key to their happiness. Life’s a balancing act between what u want, what you think you want and what you actually need.

I firmly believe that if a person is healthy and has their basic needs met they should feel a certain degree of happiness.  However, sadly society is constantly telling a person whether it is through commercials or billboards that they need the latest in everything  if they want to be happy.   I’d like to again bring up the idea of being successful and how its currently defined. Let me give an example of a  cardiac surgeon making 250,000 dollars a year living in a 400,00 dollar house in the suburbs and a swim coach that barely makes 20,000 and rents a 3 bedroom apartment. I think most people would say without hesitation that the surgeon is a far more successful individual then the swim coach. However I conveniently left out that the surgeon is battling prostate cancer, has a wife who cheats on him and although he fervently wanted to has no children because they were unable to conceive.   He was never passionate about being a surgeon and only pursued such a career to follow in the family’s footsteps.  His real love was for teaching but knew his family would forever condemn him had he chose such a career. The swim coach on the other hand is healthy, happily married and has 2 children whom he adores.  The swim coach chose his salary in an effort to make his program affordable to more families.  Swimming is known as being an expensive sport that is primarily made up of upper middle class whites. The entire family is actively involved in the sport and hopes that in time money will no longer deter people away from the sport.  I’d also like to mention that these examples are not fictional, I know both the surgeon and swim coach.   Who now would you consider successful? This example shows that money should never be the sole indicator of success. “Money just changed everything I wonder how life without it would go…”   -Drake